Edging My Bator Bro:
I love playing with @adamsurgexxx. He is even MORE penis focused than I am, and the energy around his love for cock is inspiring. In this session, I give his handsome cock ALL of my attention. Worshipping penis is almost as pleasurable to me than receiving cock worship. Both giving and receiving have huge value for our sexual satisfaction. Most people don't acknowledge though that you can appear to be giving to someone, but the touch you are offering is really for your own pleasure. Its very important when we are having sex to be conscious of the intention of our touch. Be aware of when you giving touch to your partner that is meant for them and when the touch is actually more for your own benefit. Your receiver can sense this on various levels and in most sexual situations a happy balance can be struck between the two types of intention that is exciting and pleasurable for both partners.
If you missed Adam milking and edging MY horny penis, check it out here: https://onlyfans.com/126393508/tantricfitness ๐
My bator buddy, @adamsurgexxx , and I got together recently for an edging session. I was excited to really focus on him and worship his cock. I couldn't help but suck him a few time as I brought him up and down the scale of arousal before finally allowing him to blow a tasty load ;). That's cumming up on Friday ๐ช
Take a whiff!
Would you choose bush or pits ๐?
Pheromones can really rev up your arousal, by adding another "sense" to your masturbation. This expands your pleasure, helps it flow through your body and encourages you to breathe more. Enjoy your own scent while self pleasuring, its another way to connect and bond with YOU.
How to Have Multiple Orgasms (remastered):
What better gift to give your self than the ability to have multiple orgasms while you pleasure yourself โจ
This is a learned skill that just takes knowledge and practice. Everything you need is right here as you have the 5 Masturbation Training Videos for the foundation and this lesson will take you the rest of the way. The 5 training vids are posted all together in one post near the top of my page. I previously uploaded the multiple orgasm lesson in two parts and now they are combined here into one complete lesson. I also fixed a few editing and sound issues.
Every week I hear from at least one man who has achieved multiple orgasms and is pleasuring himself and partners in new and exciting ways. The most common sentiment expressed is that men are feeling like they have a new super power as this lesson teaches you how to diffuse your refractory period, allowing you to have sex or masturbate for as long as you choose. Join me and the growing number of me who are gaining control of their sexual energy and function ๐ช
Featuring: @sethknightxxx @pierceparisxxx @wesmyersxxx @tannorreed and @thyleknoxx
Tantric Massage Exchange:
Massage is an awesome way to connect, build chemistry and share affection. Adding sensuous elements allows for more pleasure and wellness as well as helping both giver and receiver stay more present and engaged. If youโre giving massage to a long-term partner it can be a great form of foreplay, but can also act as a form of bonding if one or both or you arenโt horny and still wanting to connect through touch. In this video, @xxxtrevorjames and I demonstrate a Tantric massage. This particular session is non-ejaculatory with the goal being to charge and circulate sexual energy, for both men. Mission accomplished ;)!
Tell Me How You Like It, Part 2:
The fastest route to sexual satisfaction is good communication. Just taking a few minutes to share about desires and preferences can make a huge, positive impact on chemistry and compatibility. From our conversation you can see that I could have easily have engaged in play that was not comfortable for Edison had we not talked first. Most people will just put up with mild (and sometimes major) discomfort during sex without saying anything because they don't want to ruin the mood. Create an environment of open, supportive and non-judgemental sharing and you'll be thrilled with the result. When we share, we connect and when we show through our intimacy that we LISTENED and LEARNED, the level of trust builds and the intimacy becomes more and more profound... even if its a one time hook up.
My scene partner is @edisongarett I have really been looking forward to working with him, mainly because he is so authentic in his expression of pleasure. It is such a turn on when our partners breath, make sound and undulate their bodies in response to your touches. Be that kind of receiver for your partners, they will reward you with more passion and enthusiasm. We are wired to breed when in the presence of authentic expressions of pleasure.
Tell Me How You Like It, Part 1:
The fastest route to sexual satisfaction is good communication. Just taking a few minutes to share about desires and preferences can make a huge, positive impact on chemistry and compatibility. From our conversation you can see that I could have easily have engaged in play that was not comfortable for Edison had we not talked first. Most people will just put up with mild (and sometimes major) discomfort during sex without saying anything because they don't want to ruin the mood. Create an environment of open, supportive and non-judgemental sharing and you'll be thrilled with the result. When we share, we connect and when we show through our intimacy that we LISTENED and LEARNED, the level of trust builds and the intimacy becomes more and more profound... even if its a one time hook up.
My scene partner is @edisongarett I have really been looking forward to working with him, mainly because he is so authentic in his expression of pleasure. It is such a turn on when our partners breath, make sound and undulate their bodies in response to your touches. Be that kind of receiver for your partners, they will reward you with more passion and enthusiasm. We are wired to breed when in the presence of authentic expressions of pleasure.
Cumming this Friday is "Tell Me How You Like It"
@edisongarett and I can't wait to show you guys how our chat about sexual preferences fuels our chemistry and desire to breed ๐
This is my first ever nude. Taken while I was on Xmas break from college, 1987. I was on the gymnastics team at UC Berkeley and liked a Speedo tan line on my virgin ass back then. Iโm back home now, seeing my family for the first time since Covid. I was a bit nervous about it, but I told my mother and a few other family members about Tantric Fitness and was happy to get their support and encouragement. I didnโt go into complete detail, but they got the idea ;).
I really appreciate all of YOUR support and encouragement as well.
I have a lot of exciting scenes and tutorials planned for you guys, including a series called Daddy Fantasies that Iโll be filming with @lancecharger and four other men/boys. Thanks again, make sure to give yourself some quality Penis time this week ๐ช๐ผ
How To Be A Proud Masturbator:
Most nights I spend at least an hour doing self care. This could mean stretching, foam rolling, self massage or taking care of my skin. Whatever it is, I take this time to quiet my mind, appreciate, and care for my body that works so hard for me. It is meditative self care. Rather than focusing my mind on the TV or a podcast, I turn on some chill music and allow my thoughts to wander. When they wander to the negative, I steer them back to thoughts of appreciation (this is a constant process with meditation and totally normal). After a time, I can feel my mind expand as the good feeling thoughts raise my frequency (like tuning a radio) to a level that resonates with the vision of the life I'm wanting to live. From this place of inspired thought, I receive intuitive guidance and clear messages for all aspects of my life. On the particular night that I filmed this, I had been stretching, feeling good, and thinking positive thoughts. I had no plans to film that night, but when I felt my frequency shift higher, I began to receive the thoughts that make up the lesson within this tutorial and I decided to record. Many meditators call these inspirational thoughts, "downloads". So the download I received was about the importance of taking pride in how we masturbate and self pleasure our bodies and cocks. I hope that my verbal and masturbatory interpretation of this download inspires more pleasure from your Penis and that you try your own meditative self care and open yourself to a download โจ โจ
PS: Stay til the end as there is an extra orgasm that surprised even me!
Editing: @xxlsfstud
One of my contributions to Masturbation Month is my new video, "How To Be A Proud Masturbator" ๐ช
Learn how you can appreciate and connect with yourself while taking pride in pleasuring your Penis.
Cumming on Saturday, jack with me!
May is MASTURBATION MONTH!
I'm head over heels for it ๐
Make sure to watch Masturbation Training videos #1-5 which are posted all together in a single post towards the top of my page. Then watch How to Have Multiple Orgasms, also pinned ๐๐ผ
By the end of the month, you can be cumming multiple times like Dad!
How to Open Daddy's Hole:
This video is for anyone wanting to learn how to gently, respectfully and patiently open a manโs hole. After taking a long break from bottoming, my hole has gotten quite tight again. Luckily, just like any other muscle in our bodies, the anal muscles stretch and adapt to the โexerciseโ you do for them. Iโve been stretching my own hole using the techniques in โHow to Stretch Your Cock and Holeโ and this time I invited my buddy John to give me a hand. He helps me demonstrate a step-by-step routine that is sure to make even the tightest hole beg for penetration.
*We created this tutorial together spontaneously and our bodies aren't exactly camera ready so we appreciate your kind eyes. I have a mark on my hole from getting too friendly with a dildo ;)
And John did not get attacked by a giant octopus, he had recently done a form of muscular therapy called "cupping" which is sometimes done in conjunction with acupuncture. The suction action of the cups used to release muscle tension leave those markings*
XOXO
Video Editiing: @xxlsfstud
How to Open Daddy's Hole is cummin' out tommorrow! Here's a little preview of me teaching my buddy, John, how I like to get my ass prepared for penetration. I have not gotten fucked in a LONG time and my hole has really tightened up. I'm following my own advice and doing consistent hole stretching to gradually prepare it for cock. Gotta practice what I preach ;)!
I woke up like this...
And then nourished my erection as I do almost every day. Our sexual energy is vital, life force energy that can be used for all aspects of our lives, not just in the bedroom. When you stroke your cock and body, arouse yourself, charge your sexual energy and circulate it without ejaculating, that creative life force energy stays with you all day. This energy is there to help you manifest the life experiences you're wanting to have.
When you wake up in the morning, try masturbating, edging, focusing on your pleasure and taking that energy with you!
Report back to me and let me know how this Tantric exercise resonates with you โจ
I recently invited @barretdean over for a naked date in my backyard. We started with an outdoor shower and then he "cleaned" my cock with his tongue. After a long rimming session and prostate massage, I fucked and fed both of his hungry holes with Dad sperm. He encourages the second load outta me by milking my prostate with his thumb. Good boy ๐คค
A wonderful evening of connected play where we both asked for what we wanted and were not shy about expressing how good we felt. The more we communicate about our erotic needs, the more pleasure and satisfaction we derive from our play sessions.
I had @barretdean cum by for an evening of fucking and sucking in my backyard. I loaded him up twice and the second time, he milks my prostate like a champ ๐
Coming this week!
Wanna learn how to do this ๐คค?
Of course you do! Make sure to watch Masturbation Training Videos #1-5, and THEN watch How to Have Multiple Orgasms (Part 1 and 2). I placed the first five videos all in one post and pinned it towards the top of my page. The How to Have Multiple Orgasm vids are also pinned towards the top. Stroke, connect yourself and learn more about the function and pleasure of your COCK ๐
MORNING WOOD YOGA โ๏ธ ๐ ๐งโโ๏ธ
Wake up with Daddy and a 15 minute, head-to-toe stretching routine that includes masturbation to get your sexual energy charged for the day.
After my morning shower, I massage coconut oil all over my body-- including my hole and cock. This healthful and ingestible oil is awesome for your skin and a fantastic lube for masturbating and fucking (not condom safe). Exchanging coconut oil rubs can also be a wonderful form of foreplay for dates and partners.
Morning Wood Yoga (Preview)
Learn to combine stretching with masturbation to get ya loosened up and your energy charged for the day.
Coming tomorrow ๐ช
When Iโm horny and have a strong erection, like this one, I feel that the pleasure extends beyond my Penis. As I offer him strokes, I feel the pleasure expand and the sensation is that of โreachingโ. Reaching for more pleasure from me and for the erotic energy of other men to share with. That feeling intensifies when I think of other men who have boners that theyโre enjoying. The next time you masturbate, tune in to that reaching sensation and the energy of other men's masturbation and arousal. My Penis is reaching for you a few hours every day ๐๐๐
TOP TRAINING ๐ช๐!
Make sure youโve got some ENERGY before you follow this guided masturbation. This is a workout. 40 minutes of solid stroking and moving your body to simulate a variety packed fuck session. Ideally you will do this with a stroker, as I do. If you donโt already have one, I highly recommend you purchase a good one as they will absolutely improve your topping game. The one I use and love right now is the Tenga Blue Orb Stroker. Great reviews and two of my sex coach friends use and recommend them as well.
Whichever stroker you use, practice using it as a mouth or hole and with the fantasies in your mind, bring yourself to the feeling place of the fucking you see yourself doing and your body will adapt to the vision you are pleasuring yourself to ๐
*NOTE: If you have used stokers before and found them not stimulating enough, you may have Death Grip Syndrome. This is when you masturbate with very fast strokes and a strong grip for long periods of time. This numbs out the nerve endings in your penis making it more and more difficult to cum inside someone. This is another great reason to use a stroker, be patient and get used to it. UNTRAIN your cock from only being able to respond to that heavy, fast stroke.
When I'm settling in for an evening of masturbation, my lube of choice is oftentimes Albolene. My cock and I LOVE the glide and how incredibly long it lasts. Its also very inexpensive. You can find it on Amazon. My other favorite masturbation lube is basic coconut oil that you would find at the grocery store. It instantly melts on your skin and is a little slicker (less viscous) with a faster glide to it. Coconut oil is very good for the skin, and unlike Albolene can also be used internally for prostate massage and fucking. Remember that oil based lubes are not condom safe.
Try out both of these lubes and let me know in the comments how you and your lucky penis are enjoying the strokes. Also, please recommend any other masturbation creams or lubes you enjoy stroking with. I always love to learn what's working for other cock owners ๐ช
Give a gift to yourself by setting some time aside this weekend to connect with yourself and enjoy an extended masturbation session. Practice a few of the techniques you're learning on the page here and pat yourself on the back afterwards for a job well done. Be a PROUD masturbator ๐๐
A brief, stretching tutorial for bottoms who want to be more comfortable while getting fucked, as well as get deeper penetration from their tops ๐ช
Naked Yoga for Better Sex!
*I apologize that the sound is off time a bit
With the warm weather approaching, itโs even more important to stay hydrated. As a massage therapist, I can always tell if a client is hydrated or not. Hydrated skin is softer and more supple. Muscle tissue that is hydrated is more pliable and flexible and has a more resilient quality. Increase your water intake and notice how the extra fluid makes you feel more FLUIDITY in your movement ๐ช๐ผ
"The Masturbator in the Mirror"
About eight years ago I began my journey towards being more conscious about my masturbation and partnered sexual intimacy. I started taking local workshops, reading books and watching sex and Tantra education videos. An early theme that resonated with me was learning how to connect with myself, really see myself as a sexual being who was born from sex, and release any shame or guilt around expressing my sexuality. An exercise that was recommended more than once was to self pleasure in front of a mirror-- to proudly display my masturbation to myself and even record it. This is one of my first experiments with the exerciseโฆ
It has taken me some time to let go of my judgements of how I look and display by body during pleasure and you can see that I was MUCH more reserved than I am now. I love seeing how my cock size and loads have increased with the PENIS HEALTH exercises I have done over the years. Consistency has paid off! I highly encourage you to watch Masturbation Training Videos #1-5 (pinned towards the top of my page) and How to Stretch you Cock and Hole which are toward the end of my timeline, posted last fall.
Make a date with yourself to masturbate for yourself in front of a mirror. Record it if you like! Its fun to see where you are and mark your progress towards your authentic expression of pleasure. This exercise is a huge help in becoming more confident with partners. As you become more accustomed to letting go for yourself you are then more comfortable letting go in front of partners ๐